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[updated september 2024]



traditional  vs.  non-traditional  roommates

Across the US & Canada lately, most roommate groups are either traditional or non-traditional.

Who's best for you?

Who's paying more rent?

traditional non-traditional
2BR ÷ 2 roommates often > for both
more $ per roommate less $ per roommate
robot landlords possible robot landlords practically impossible
trendy urban blocks could be trendy,
or trendy-adjacent & commutable
rarely owner-occupied increasingly owner-occupied
smaller living spaces larger living spaces
more $ spots usually available less $ spots unpredictably available
(lower turnover)
slight majority male male and female equally
18-28 fully multigenerational
(older = more homeowners)
1st or 2nd time seeking roommates 3rd or > time
looking for roommates for a year hoping for longer if it works out
assumes work & play elsewhere enjoys hanging out at home
may prefer to socialize separately mingling without leaving the house
= making friends while saving money


(We'd categorize most roommate groups as either traditional or non-traditional.   All of one list above isn't required, just most.   However, across our usual wide variety of roommate groups, most have been much more one or the other, for a few years now.)



Until recently, our one-and-only index of average roommate rent and how much you could save compared to a 1BR was the average cost of a 2BR ÷ 2. Just like smartasset.com.  So here is a bird's-eye view of those roommate dollars.

And until a few years ago, this traditional index would have been close to average for both categories, or almost everyone. We've always heard from non-traditional roommate groups as well. However, since they were previously in the minority but similarly priced, they didn't skew the numbers that much. Before.

But the roommate landscape shifted. Rising rents and an affordable housing shortage in most cities gradually multiplied the differences between the two. Then, pandemic.

Traditional roommate rents went up, but so did the number of homeowners renting rooms, along with working from home. The disparity between traditional and non-traditional roommate groups is now large enough that it no longer makes sense to average them, then declare that the whole story.

Real estate companies are able to monitor rentals of entire units, or the purchase of real estate, because those numbers are reported to the government and the census. If you're renting a room in an owner-occupied property, these same agencies can't "see" you or exactly how much you've paid in the same publicly-accessible way.

Hence, non-traditional roommate groups fly under most real estate radar.


affordable housing shortage

Now, the "depth of the housing shortage and the suddenness of Covid-19 and inflation have tipped smaller cities into an affordability crisis."

While spending >= 30% of income on rent means "rent-burdened" due to likely difficulty affording other life necessities, it's the "new normal" in many US metros.

"The US is now rent-burdened nationwide for the first time."

Economists say "the fundamental issue is that the country does not have enough homes where people want them. ... The shortage has driven up costs for buyers and renters alike—most spectacularly in megacities such as Los Angeles and New York, but pretty much everywhere at this point."


remote equity rentals

"Amid a national housing crisis, giant private equity firms have been buying up apartment buildings en masse to squeeze them for profit ... snapping up rentals by the thousands," along with "tens of thousands of single-family homes lost to foreclosure." This means more remote landlords in major American cities, according to ProPublica’s analysis.

This puts upward pressure on rent prices for everyone, pushing up the cost of renting and driving down affordable housing stock. Meanwhile, many so-called mom-and-pop landlords have been displaced by corporate players. All tenants pay more, while the only ones benefiting from soaring rents are out-of-town investors.

"What the real estate industry won't tell you" is that as the ratio of investor-owned houses to live-in buyers rises, the investors get more tax deductions but prices skyrocket for everyone else." Housing is getting less affordable for everyone at every level," says Daryl Fairweather, chief economist for Redfin.

"Such firms use economies of scale to more aggressively squeeze profits from their buildings" than live-in or even local landlords usually do, tenant advocates say. "The firms’ tactics can include sharply increasing rent or fees and neglecting upkeep."

"In contrast, so-called mom-and-pops usually look for steady streams of rental income over time while their buildings grow in value."

Meanwhile, living with roommates to whom you rent rooms can be reasonably profitable, but only reasonably. So if you own a property good enough for roommates, you can rent part of it out. That's reasonably profitable, and reasonable property owners and reasonable roommates could be happy together.

But investors demand high yields, not reasonable places to live. Investors always want to push past reasonable. Since investment property tends to change hands, each time with someone new taking another cut, ultimately it inflates well past property taxes alone.


robot landlords

And now it's not just remote! It's robot!

Robot landlords are essential.

Charging rent remotely wouldn't be comfortable without automation overlay for all the tasks local landlords previously handled. If robot repair requests are actually honored, they're outsourced to local contractors, who may take their time. Many tenants have been disappointed in their robots' lack of responsiveness. Every attempted complaint sent them down a rabbithole of absolutely no one willing to take responsibility for anything other than charging rent.

The robot landlords control you and their properties using apps developed to assist Wall Street investment firms and real estate developers. So that's a huge help to anyone looking to charge from afar without showing up.

But it's a lot less helpful to anyone looking for affordable housing. The apps allow real estate developers to charge all the fees, but now with next to none of the employees.

Housing advocates say long distance real estate run remotely from afar pushes "lower and middle-income Americans out of homeownership by buying up the kind of older, 1,000-square-foot-ish houses once affordable to first-time homeowners and inflating the market with investors."

Or once affordable for roommates. Because many of those might have been purchased by someone with enough for a down payment, but would prefer help with upcoming monthlies. That person could charge roommates less while still paying all their own bills.

But when multiple absentee landlords take their cut from a roommate situation, it becomes more difficult for most to live there.


owner-occupied roommate groups

Q: So, are roommates really that different than inflation in general? Or to the extent they are, won't the market still correct itself at some point, even if the inflation is driven by away investors?

A: Sure, roommate rents rise with general inflation. And roommate rents can fall when inflation does as well. But remote real estate speculators could extract a lot of value from you and your roommates before that happens.

If investors think they can extract more value from you in the future, they'll try again. Out-of-state investors are pushing for "rent hikes that outpace wages and inflation," say a tenants' rights movement pushing for rent control.


Q: So, is supporting a live-in landlord really that different than supporting several remote ones? Homeowners are extracting value from roommates too, right?

A: Sure, homeowners are extracting value. But they're usually putting a good bit of it back into where you collectively live, as conditions there affect them too.

For your larger roommate community, support of owner-occupied housing keeps a higher percentage of housing affordable for everyone. Assisting someone who owns their home or is working on a mortgage but still living locally is more clever for you both than donating money to away investors.

On the strictly selfish front, when landlords are live-in or even local to the roommates they charge, it puts the brakes on a lot of bad behavior.

Certainly not all.

But a lot.






northeast roommate rent
northeast US non-trad trad 1BR
Indianapolis 400 741 1148
Cleveland 350 753 1377
Buffalo 450 761 1194
Columbus 550 769 1263
Detroit 500 771 1257
Bangor 350 797 1335
Cincinnati 350 798 1212
Grand Rapids 500 815 1429
Hartford 800 825 1380
Syracuse 500 832 1405
Pittsburgh 550 851 1385
Baltimore 650 943 1554
US national median 958 1534
Philadelphia 700 1012 1627
Providence 600 1059 1676
Manchester 550 1078 1765
Newark 800 1150 1701
Worcester 650 1206 2027
New Haven or Bridgeport 800 1209 2069
Burlington 500 1239 2252
NYC-Staten Island 850 1270 2018
Portland Maine 550 1360 1873
NYC-The Bronx 900 1506 2550
New Brunswick 600 1518 2326
Washington D.C. 900 1610 2411
Boston 1000 1857 2979
NYC-Queens 1150 2093 3320
NYC-Brooklyn 1400 2637 4156
NYC-Manhattan 1500 3604 4966




southeast roommate rent
southeast US non-trad trad 1BR
Little Rock 300 546 933
Jackson 300 551 1072
Memphis 350 601 1132
Louisville 350 635 1071
Columbia (SC) 500 671 1129
Birmingham 350 686 1299
Tallahassee 400 690 1163
Gainesville 450 730 1218
Jacksonville 450 749 1210
Athens 550 768 1356
Pensacola 450 770 1357
Norfolk 600 801 1343
Raleigh or Durham or Chapel Hill 650 818 1238
Richmond 650 822 1388
Baton Rouge 400 843 1217
Knoxville 450 852 1402
US national median 958 1534
New Orleans 550 962 1469
Orlando 650 966 1561
Charlotte 650 975 1508
Nashville 700 1084 1687
Tampa or St. Petersburg 400 1091 1697
Atlanta 790 1142 1585
Charleston 550 1455 2152
Miami or Fort Lauderdale 700 1985 2901




midwest roommate rent
midwest US non-trad trad 1BR
Wichita 360 480 766
Fargo 350 559 943
Des Moines 400 662 1053
Sioux Falls 360 683 1172
Milwaukee 400 693 1190
Kansas City 550 719 1183
Omaha 350 730 1055
St. Louis 550 804 1206
US national median 958 1534
Madison 500 994 1550
Minneapolis or St. Paul 600 1094 1419
Chicago 740 1471 2291




northwest roommate rent
northwest US non-trad trad 1BR
Cheyenne 310 596 922
Boise 400 734 1315
Salem or Eugene 450 748 1233
Spokane 520 756 1324
Tacoma 650 938 1462
US national median 958 1534
Salt Lake City 475 975 1496
Portland (OR) 750 1016 1592
Seattle 1200 1422 2002




southwest roommate rent
southwest US non-trad trad 1BR
Oklahoma City 460 611 998
Tulsa 400 616 1012
College Station 600 690 1113
Tucson 450 691 1026
Albuquerque 390 704 1084
San Antonio 600 704 1095
Colorado Springs 550 774 1249
Las Vegas 500 823 1277
Reno 625 875 1335
Houston 700 892 1299
Phoenix or Tempe 600 900 1384
US national median 958 1534
Sacramento 760 986 1614
Austin 850 1058 1603
Dallas or Fort Worth 700 1132 1524
Santa Fe 500 1163 1682
Denver 800 1270 1856
Boulder 725 1304 2008
Orange County 860 1494 2311
San Jose 1300 1674 2562
San Diego 1100 1747 2491
Los Angeles 790 1843 2503
San Francisco 1500 2075 3023




Canadian roommate rent
Canada non-trad trad 1BR
Edmonton 540 853 1375
Winnipeg 410 868 1402
Calgary 600 1166 1885
Montreal 650 1170 1773
Canadian national average 1171 1901
Ottawa 500 1251 1992
Halifax or Dartmouth 475 1423 2129
Toronto 875 1587 2367
Vancouver 800 2043 2680





Notes

1.   The non-traditional roommate rent average for this city we've experienced over the last 3 years. We can't predict future rental availability, because we're neither in control of any rental market nor psychic, sorry!

But in most cities most of the time, the recent and relatively recent past are the best predictors.


2.   This idea came from smartasset.com's ranking of what a roommate saves you in 50 cities. They ranked where roommates will save you the most money, based on the average cost of a 1BR as opposed to a 2BR ÷ 2. Unsurprisingly, the more expensive the city, the more you can save, but the savings are significant in all larger metros. So we got the data for the rest of our cities from Zumper too.

This is really the minimum you could save, as you could live with more than one roommate, split more services, share food or other supplies, etc. More sharing tends to lead to more savings too, as per our roommate roadmap.

As per the rest of the description at the top of this page, we're calling this "traditional" roommate rent.


3.   From zumper.com.


4.   Directly quoted from the Trust for Public Land's parkland rating system.

"The ParkScore index awards each city up to 100 points for acreage based on the average of two equally weighted measures: median park size and parkland as a percentage of city area. Factoring park acreage into each city’s ParkScore rating helps account for the importance of larger “destination parks” that serve many users who live farther than ten minutes’ walking distance."

While each city's rundown already includes their individual ParkScore, nature lovers might like to see all roommate cities ranked for parkland.


5.   Directly quoted from Walk Score's Cities and Neighborhoods Ranking. They've ranked "more than 2,800 cities and over 10,000 neighborhoods so you can find a walkable home or apartment."

While each city's rundown already includes their individual Walk Score, dedicated pedestrians might like to see all roommate cities ranked for walkability.


6.   From various lists here on our own best roommate cities.


7.   From hoodmaps.com: a collaborative map where residents use tags describing social situations you're likely to find. Other users can thumb up or down, so the largest tags have been thumbed up the most.